We often talk about using manifestation to attract love into your life. What if you’ve already found your perfect partner and they’re just not in your life the way you want them to be? Can you start manifesting a specific person towards you?
You can absolutely draw that special person towards you using manifestation. Creating a deeper level of connection with someone you know is a vibrational match is so much more powerful than just attracting a general love interest.
So how do you go about it?
Can You Manifest Someone by Thinking About Them?
When I talk about manifestation the main thing I run into with new readers (or members) is confusing wishful thinking with successful manifestations.
If you’re just sitting around thinking about your perfect person and hoping they’ll suddenly be interested in you… I mean, it might happen by chance but I don’t think I need to tell you what your chances are.
Manifestation is not the same as just thinking about a specific person.
That’s not to say there’s not something to the power of visualization (and it certainly won’t hurt) but there’s a big difference between pining after someone and being proactive about manifesting your future together.
I won’t tell you what to do with your life and if you genuinely believe that just thinking about them is enough to attract someone towards you then I really do wish you the best.
But, if you’re serious about a romantic relationship with them, then I’d like to actually help you get started on your manifestation journey. That means really making the effort.
How Do You Manifest a Relationship With Someone Specific?
I talk a lot about manifestation techniques and attracting your dream life with vibrational alignment. Mostly because I’ve seen just how powerful it can be and I want more people to share that too.
But if you really want to manifest a specific person towards you then you need to understand the basic principle right away.
Manifestation is not a passive process. If you’re hoping to just snap your fingers and have them call you then you’re going to be in for a rough surprise.
Right now, the universe doesn’t know what you actually want. All it knows is you have a crush on a specific person but this kind of thing happens all the time.
Manifestation is about telling the universe I want this person and it’s going to happen.
There is an abundance of manifestation techniques you can use to make this happen. I could do an entire article on the different techniques (and I have) but assuming you’re not a member, let’s run over the basics.
Note: If one of the more specific techniques speak to you (or you want to follow along the step-by-step workbook) it can help to avoid some of the common pitfalls but it really all boils down to the same basic principles.
Step 1: Draw Your Energetic Level Together (Honestly)
As far as the universe is concerned, you’re two separate entities. We need to re-frame that to draw you both together.
This starts by being brutally honest with yourself.
Why do you want them? Is it just physical attraction? Do you want them as a life partner, a spouse or a close friend?
What would that person mean to you? What would your future look like together?
What would the process of getting together look like? I don’t mean the wishful thinking version, I mean if it actually happened today what would the most likely cause be?
The details matter. Visualize it slowly. Write it down. Base the whole thing on reality and what could actually happen. You’re probably not stopping a bank robbery in front of them or pulling them from a burning car, what could actually bring you together?
If you can’t see a clear and actionable path to the end result – neither can the universe.
Step 2: Manifestation Journal (Don’t Skip This)
Note: This is a good time to set a scripting prompt. Scripting is one of the more basic manfiestation techniques and it really means writing about your life as if it had already happened. Tricking your mind into thinking you’ve already reached the result.
Of course, writing “I am in a relationship with the specific person” doesn’t mean you have a date planned – but writing in the positive tense about your future together and how you’re going to make it happen can be very powerful.
You might have seen me talk about the many traps and pitfalls I see causing people to fail to manifest real change in their life. Starting a manifestation journal might be one of the best tips I can give you.
You know the specific person you want to draw closer. You know how it could happen. It’s time to put pen to paper.
Begin by explaining the relationship you want to manifest and the specific person.
Go into detail.
Draw out a mind map of the things you like about them, the reasons you’re both suited together and (most importantly) the different ways a relationship could begin.
Start by getting into detail and then continue to update the journal as you progress. Noting results and changes.
There are no real hard-set rules on how a manifestation journal should look but my advice is always to keep it clear and focused on manifesting a specific person and keep it focused on how that could actually happen.
It’s not a fantasy novel. Don’t fall into the trap of just wishful thinking.
You might begin your day with affirmations like:
- I am drawing you towards me.
- We are going to share a dream life together.
- We are destined for a loving relationship.
The journal can be on paper, on your phone or online. The medium doesn’t matter but you do need to follow this very important rule: keep it focused on attracting this specific person.
Don’t get distracted and split your focus into other areas of your life. You can absolutely use manifestation in every aspect of your reality but when you’re just getting started I suggest sticking to one thing at a time.
Keep the journal focused on your journey. Keep it clear. Keep it positive. Keep it consistent.
A manifestation journal should not be lamenting setbacks and negative feelings. Negative affirmations will hold you back far more than positive ones will push you forward. This is where many people can fall down but it’s crucially important you stick to positive statements.
Look at what you’re doing to improve yourself and your future relationship. Not just what you wish things looked like.
Step 3: Unleash Your Will on the Universe
Now comes the important part.
Once you’ve begun to manifest your desires and the universe is aware of what you want – you need to let it help you.
It’s no good manifesting the potential of an amazing relationship if you hide away from the world and don’t have the opportunity of actually starting one.
Manifestation is going to help put opportunities in front of you.
The universe knows exactly what it would take for a relationship to form. Maybe it’s just a case of them seeing you in a certain light or an aspect of self-improvement that would make you appealing to them.
Manifestation gives you the opportunity to make these changes but you’re going to need to actually take proactive steps to make a relationship blossom.
Maybe that means working on your communication with them. Maybe it means focusing entirely internally and working on yourself while allowing them to do the same.
That will always be specific to you and your journey so I can’t say for sure. What I can say is the universe knows what it takes and once you’ve begun to manifest it, it will line the dominoes up – you just need to push the first one over.
How Do You Manifest a Specific Person Overnight?
You can always begin to manifest someone (or anything for that matter) overnight. If you genuinely get started right now then things will start to see progression overnight.
But this doesn’t mean you’re going to have a whirlwind romance by tomorrow morning.
I’m all too aware that there are people out there who tell you that manifestation means instantly getting everything you want.
My life would probably be easier if I just agreed with them.
But the difference is I want you to actually see results from your manifestation techniques. So whenever I’m asked about getting results immediately or overnight I always say the same thing.
Consistency is key with manifestation. You’ll start to immediately move things in the right direction, you’ll likely start to see results early on – but stick with the process even when you think the work is done.